You don't know what you don't know.
Before moving to Thailand, I had no idea of the country's abundance of beautiful women.
South-East Asia has untapped resources for all those guys looking for a wonderful woman in his life.
In Australia, I often saw slim honey-tanned Asian girls walking hand-in-hand with a much older western man.
In the back of my mind, I've seen these girls before but only in passing.
It wasn't until a few years ago that I dived into Google at the request of a good friend of mine.
He pleaded to me to come to visit him in Thailand.
Why would I be interested in Thai women? What are they going to do for me? Will they be a good fit for my life?
The Thai people are a mix of ethnicity and race from Chinese, Mon, Khmer, Lao, and Indian descent. Thais are calm, soft-spoken and gentle by nature. Thai women are taught from a very young age to be polite, soft-spoken and respectful, especially to men. Women in Thailand share the slim honey-skinned body type of South-Asian countries. She takes great pride in her appearance, dress-code, skin condition and overall presentation.
Like any country, Thai women come in all shapes and sizes.
For the most part, women in Thailand are slender and ooze sensuality.
If you're looking for an Asian girlfriend, these girls from the diverse areas of Thailand should be at the top of your list.
If you're looking for a girlfriend, a Thai wife or new female Thai friends then let me tell you why you're on the right track.
And here's why:
Religion is a good thing when it involves Thai women.
Though my personal view is Buddhism is more a way of life and a course of living.
Happiness forms a central theme of Buddhist teachings.
Buddhism encourages the generation of loving, kindness and compassion, the desire for the happiness and welfare of all beings.
With the majority of the Thai population being Buddhist the next girlfriend you befriend will probably be a happy woman.
But why do you care if they are happy girls?
Have you heard of the saying 'A smile is contagious'?
Here in Thailand, happiness is the same.
I can't recall any of the girls I dated as being unhappy.
Sure, like everybody, they have misunderstandings and some subtle anger.
You only have to stroll around Thailand to see the natural facial expression of Thai people is a smile.
Thailand's global tagline is 'The Land of Smiles'.
As an older guy dating younger girls, you will quickly realise how infectious their happiness is.
From the first Thai lady I met in Thailand, I felt more like a young puppy dog than I have ever felt in my life.
And your new Thai girlfriend wants to make you happy as well.
I remember the first date I went on, here in Thailand.
Her name was Pii, and she was a stunning Thai woman who travelled 2 hours by bus to meet me here in Bangkok.
She had two daughters who lived in Bangkok, so the trip was routine and easy for her. We had a comfortable first meeting at a shopping mall in Siam.
Like I've said before she was a (typical) slim tanned-skinned Thai beauty.
Important Happiness hint #1 with beautiful Thai women
Don't let an impending language barrier get in your way.
Many girls study and practise their English through the use of subtitled YouTube videos. Yes, YouTube.
They can spend their spare moments on their smartphones and study English so they can become more conversant with western men.
You always have Google Translator to fall back on. While Google Translator does do a poor job in translating the Thai language, you will get the general gist of the meaning and go from there.
Have fun with it and laugh together.
All these girls will see your happy attitude as a 'plus' towards your overall boyfriend score.
Immediately I saw she had a beaming smile and was thrilled to meet me face-to-face.
Despite 12 months on a Thai dating website, she had never met a western guy face-to-face. One of the reasons was she didn't live in one of the mainstream cities in Thailand such as Bangkok, Phuket, Pattaya, Hua Hin etc.
Mentioning happiness again, you could see in her entire body a happy tone.
I was calm and relaxed instantly after seeing this.
I suggested we visit an ice cream parlour to start some light and happy, cheerful conversation.
Important Happiness hint #2 with beautiful Thais
Thai women like their men to take the initiative in suggesting things.
It takes the burden off them and allows you the advantage of the direction of the encounter.
Even take this further and tell them where to sit.
If you are in a coffee shop or an ice cream parlour, never sit opposite to them. Take the seat next to them or at right angles as this allows you to keep within arms distance, which is an important dating technique. It is natural to lightly touch their arm (when the right opportunity arises).
I mentioned before about Thai women wanting to make you happy. The next leg of our few hours together led to some light dinner.
I love Thai food as do all Thai girls, so we headed for a local Thai restaurant which many Thai people were eating in. (This is a good indication that the food is tasty and delicious to Thai people)
One of those small cultural things that make me happy with all of these beautiful Thai girls is the custom of them serving or placing food on your plate from the main dish.
It's a small thing, but until you've experienced it, you will not understand just how happy it makes a man feel. Not a slave thing - it's about them looking after their man.
Happiness also comes from respect from your partner. Thai women know and appreciate this.
Make sure you demonstrate respect as well. Treat her like a woman.
Important Happiness hint #2 for these girls
Conversation Topics at the Ice-Cream Parlour
Most Thais have great pride in their own country but know little else outside.
I have a question for you.
When you've been dating western girls, have you ever had any of them poured your beer and then topped up your beer when they've noticed you've drunk a little?
The answer for 99.9% of you is an emphatic 'NO'.
Western women expect men to do all these pleasantries for the sake of feminism.
It's a fortunate world Thailand hasn't taken on Western feminism.
I'm 100% behind women and men in the right roles.
In my view, both genders are built and wired differently and have different roles to play.
Apart from the drinks, most Thai girls will attend to serving new portions of food from the main dishes.
I have to say this takes a little getting used to when you first experience it.
If the lady has different foods on her plate to yours, a pleasant surprise is they will spoon a little directly into your mouth to try.
I love that because that makes me feel special.
Thai people, in general, are immaculate.
You'll see many who stay at your room will take it upon themselves to do dishes or sweep/clean and if you're lucky, even do some ironing. (I've been lucky)
When it comes to personal grooming, these girls do like to take care of their men.
They are OK to cut your hair, choose your clothes and some will even cut and groom your finger and toenails.
How about cosmetics?
You'll notice they are beautiful because they're well-groomed and take care of themselves.
They have a vast knowledge of cosmetics, including for men.
Treat yourself to some added personal pampering.
The girls will love to help choose your cosmetics and also to assist in applying them to you.
It is a total treat so go with the flow, my friends. You only live once.
My grasp of the Thai language is somewhat limited, and yours will be too.
Thai women love to help out here too.
If asked, these Thai cuties will deal with any Thai suppliers you might have. As well as fix logistical issues you might be having at your condominium such as electrical problems, air conditioning issues or dealing with reception.
All in all, women from Thailand treat their guys special.
Remember, it's a two-way street.
I came to Thailand pretty much a wrecked man after a dismal five-year marriage.
The moment I stepped off the plane in Thailand, I felt a tremendous weight lift from my shoulders.
This plane flight was a new beginning.
I had already decided on meeting some girls in Thailand and finding a life of sustained happiness.
The caring nature of the people in Thailand gives a new meaning to the word 'calm'.
Without the stresses of the Western world, you get a new outlook on life when you discover the beauty, sensuality and caring nature of the girls here.
The decades of previous stress and relationship bullshit had washed away.
What I found astounding was after two years in Thailand, my hair is growing darker and growing back in those thinning areas.
Even those laugh lines and wrinkles are gradually easing, which is impressive.
Thai girls have something special about them.
The analogy to this is when you have an old family dog, on their last legs.
You don't think they have much time left with you.
So you buy a young puppy as a replacement.
What happens next is that old dog tends to live for many many more years.
That young puppy has rejuvenated the faithful old dog of yours.
The same is true for older guys finding younger girls.
These cute women have energy, calm, caring and dedication, giving you a long life.
In most 1st world western countries, Thailand has a reputation for being the go-to place for the world's sex and prostitution trade.
Many western men come to Thailand for a holiday for the sole purpose of sexual gratification. While Pattaya is renowned as the country's No. #1 hotspot for sex, the majority of Thailand is not like this.
Like anywhere else in the world, Thailand has good and bad places when it comes to the sex industry.
The majority of Thai women view sex for what it is.
Sex is a natural part of a relationship between man and woman.
There are right and wrong times when it comes to sex with these women.
I will say this; South-East Asian women tend to be more comfortable with sex than western women.
The number one rule with online dating sites is never to mention sex when you are messaging.
They're aware it is part and parcel of what is about to come next in the dating cycle.
You just need to do it in the right way.
Get to know them first.
Find out some background from each other.
Meet face-to-face and see if you have any sort of connection.
Important Tip About Cock Pics
For goodness sake, do not send women pictures of your cock.
It is bad taste, and the chances are high she will block you the minute she sees the photo.
They have seen a few penises before yours. Leave it at that, and keep your smartphone camera in your pocket.
Once you are comfortable with each other, (this can be as soon as the second date) things can quickly escalate.
The main focus for a Thai woman who wants to meet a western man is to snare him into a relationship.
They know full well that sex is apart of any relationship.
I mentioned earlier Thai women like to take care of their men. Having a full, healthy and active sex life is included in this.
It's nothing to view in a dirty way.
Buddhists have a healthy outlook towards a healthy sex life.
When you think about it, we're all a product of a sexual union.
It's natural and healthy.
For a western guy in Thailand, you'll be amazed as well as surprised to discover Thai women love having sex with someone they have affection.
Many girls in Thailand spend their early 20s getting a solid education to establish themselves with long stable employment.
The downside, if you can call it that, is many aren't well versed when it comes to sexual variety.
The beauty of innocence is most are only too willing to learn new techniques, providing it's consensual.
That's not how it is in the West.
As a western guy, you'll have a beaming smile from ear to ear when you encounter the girls here who are more than willing to take care of you and your sexual appetite.
Just remember to be respectful.
Important Tip About Sex and girls in Thailand
A girlfriend isn't a prostitute!
When I make contact with a girl on a Thai dating site, I'm regularly reminded by them that they aren't a Thai bargirl or prostitute.
Unfortunately, many guys think all women in Thailand live and breathe to have sex with them.
Umm, well, that isn't the case. A good girl will have sex with you - no doubt about it. Just don't treat them like a sex object and you'll do fine.
They're a girlfriend, remember?
You only have to do a comparison yourself between the sexy slim girls you find in Thailand and your past dating experiences with western women.
The differences will be significant.
These are what makes western men flock to Thailand and South-East Asia, in droves.
And many, like myself, choose to remain in Thailand.
Finding a woman who gives you clearer thinking, longer life and great sex is what a man wants.
Men are simple creatures :)
It is a mixture of Thai culture, the upbringing of their younger girls and a distinct lack of western feminism which brings it all together.
The point is if you want a happy and peaceful life, then you can do no better than to sample the joys of women in Thailand.
They are easy to join, simple to use, and you can use them at any time of the day or night. You owe yourself a favour in life to take the plunge and spend some quality time in investing in your future happiness.
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Author: Martin Cooney
Enjoying Life in Asia/Pacific
Hi, my name is Martin. I have many friends in and traveled throughout the Asia/Pacific regions for the past 17 years. I am passionate in helping others with my insight and past adventures.
I hope you enjoy the stories I write and take a little something away from them. I've contributed to over 160 posts on travel, dating, marriage and relationships.