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By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.
- Benjamin Franklin
Joining a Thai dating site like ours is easy and fast to do.
Your goal is to find the right Thai woman or ladyboy.
How do you prepare yourself for a new Thai holiday, new Thai friends, or a relationship in Thailand?
The keys to success lay in a foundation of preparedness. Both Thailand and Thai women will be uniquely foreign to any first-time visitor. To be successful with Thai dating, you must first know yourself and ultimately desire your Thailand outcomes. Your challenges will initially involve religion, cultural differences, intimacy acceptance, and a more relaxed lifestyle.
Before we get started, I'd recommend you read the following posts as a primer course:-
No matter where you are in life, we recommend opting for a Thailand holiday at least once.
You need to take stock of your personality traits first. Once done, you'll be better prepared to match with a more compatible Thai partner.
85 to 95 percent of the Thailand population is Theravada Buddhist.
But Buddhism is more than a religion to Thai people; it forms a core fundamental to their lifestyle and how they conduct themselves. Buddhism is why Thai women are sought after by single male tourists and ex-pats.
Thai girls have a too relaxed outlook on life and sex but value a stable wholesome relationship. Buddhism is the prime source of those views.
Many foreigners maintain strict views on religion, unfortunately.
Do you honestly want to strip away a Thai girls' values for the sake of her taking on your beliefs?
Can you cope with a mixed religious relationship? You will succeed when you accept Buddhism.
I've lived in Thailand for eight years. Those years have been the most gratifying times I can remember.
This new satisfaction stems primarily from the Thai culture. As you grow older, the frenzy of the rat race grows old too. The much slower pace of Thailand is a breath of welcoming fresh air.
Then there are the many new food choices and how Thai women behave differently from men (in a relaxed and calm fashion).
Have you given thought to a welcome change in culture? Are you locked into your way of doing things? Can you evolve and adapt?
A trip to Thailand is eye-opening and will give you your first taste of things to come. Please show acceptance.
Can you be intimate with a woman?
Thai women take care of their boyfriends as a woman should. These Thai girls are soft, gentle, and loving women - not at all like you've been used to in your home country. Hardened feminism doesn't exist in Thailand.
But the Thai girls expect to be treated with the same loving care in return.
Your reward is obvious.
Thailand has a male-dominated society. Women in Thailand are more accommodating to men.
All Thai women will expect you to be the primary decision-maker.
Despite your western influences to defer to a woman's needs and wants, the opposite is true in Thailand.
From a respect point of view, you should ask a Thai woman her opinion, but the final decision is yours to make.
Can you re-educate yourself to be the dominant partner?
What's the best part of taking a holiday?
Answer: Stepping away from your typical routines and taking the foot off the accelerator pedal.
The best characteristic of Thai women is their relaxed attitudes towards life, in general. It will be initially daunting to be with a woman accepting of wherever you want to go.
A Thai woman will be happy to tag along as your side-kick and experience everything you have in mind.
Many Western guys/tourists/ex-pats find it challenging to change their busy work life. It would be best if you prepared yourself for a radical change of pace.
It is tough to commit to any new relationship, especially considering you've had past failed relationships.
Remember, a relationship can mean a new friend, travel companion, infrequent lover, or something more long-term like a Thai girlfriend or wife.
But coming to Thailand, you will need to give in to being a little more trusting with a Thai woman or ladyboy. A small amount, not total. It is always wise to take things slow in the beginning and feel your way around.
"No pain, no gain."
Prepare for the worst and accept the best that life has to offer.
Thai women will want a long-term relationship. You don't need to give that to them, but you certainly can intimate your intentions with the right person.
Commitment Benefits for Casual Dating include:-
Commitment Benefits for Serious Dating include:-
Have you decided what you want from Thailand or Thai women?
You will increase your 'holiday happiness' returns significantly by mapping out your expectations. Setting up your goals and aspirations is essential as a central focus point.
My first fear when landing in Thailand was what I was capable of eating.
I'd heard strange stories of having to eat spicy-hot insects. It turns out this was all a pile of ill-informed foreigner fake news. Nothing could be further from the truth.
But it does raise a valid question for each of you.
Will you survive on Asian food? Can you come to love Thailand's particular slant on Asian food, which is the spicy variety?
You can see from our video that there are many foreigner-friendly foods available in Thailand.
But delving into the spicy side will win you points with every Thai girl you will encounter. Eating spicy will make it easier when you're holidaying with her as well.
As a single male, you'll find every type of sexual preference in Thailand. Be aware of local Thai laws on what is legal, though.
You will enjoy visiting or living in Thailand a lot more when you're honest about your sexual inclinations.
If you want to experiment with a ladyboy, then go right ahead. We have a broad and diverse range of ladyboys who are looking for partners.
As always, with new sexual partners, please take precautions against diseases.
Note: We do not condone any form of illegal activity
It would be best if you established your short-term and long-term relationship goals for Thailand. Doing this goal setting gives you more scope for successful progression.
When I first came to Thailand, my short-term goal was to sample the female delights Thai women had to offer. But my ultimate goal was a long-term relationship with a local Thai girl who can live with me.
Your goals will be different and will change along the way.
Many single first-time tourists come for a holiday girlfriend and nothing else.
Having a plan allows you to speak with some authority and purpose with the Thai women you encounter on our Thai dating site. Just having these rudimentary outlines will pave the way for more successful dates and relationships too.
The Thai girls will instantly know you are serious with who you want. Woman value confidence in a man.
Be clear with yourself (and the Thai women you contact), and you will get your reward.
Thinking about long-term plans for Thailand itself is a continuation of your dating goals.
If you are indeed thinking of a Thai woman as a life partner, then her love of her country will weigh in on your future decisions too.
If you're over 50 years of age, then a retirement visa is your easiest option if you decide to stay in Thailand.
Otherwise, you're best to research the options afforded to you by Thailand Elite. You'll quickly discover Thai women will prefer to remain in Thailand. But given the right circumstances and commitment, she will be more than willing to follow you back home.
Bringing a cute sexy brown-skinned Asian girlfriend back into your country's environment has unique problems:-
You can overcome all problems when you properly prepare for them.
Choose to live in Thailand, or your Thai girlfriend/wife chooses to live with you in your home country are both great futures for you both.
Just plan for your future and live a wonderfully happy life!
You have a great many possible future outcomes involving Thailand and Thai women.
As Benjamin Franklin said in the opening quote, it's better to plan.
Your goal is to find new Thai friends, a holiday girlfriend or love, or a relationship.
Define what you want now and where you wish to be in the future. Your success will escalate by doing these two vital things.
What benefits can I expect from commitment in a casual Thai woman relationship?
Almost immediately, you can expect an increase in sexual frequency, inclusion into the Thai girls' circle of friends, her willingness as a holiday girlfriend, her wanting to live with you, and the bonus of living naked when inside your apartment/condo.
What are my main stumbling blocks in online dating with an Asian woman?
Your initial hurdles will be  coping with a new religion,  learning a Thai woman's cultural differences,  accepting willing intimacy,  having the dominant partner role,  and getting a more relaxed lifestyle.
Author: Martin Cooney
Enjoying Life in Asia/Pacific
Hi, my name is Martin. I have many friends in and traveled throughout the Asia/Pacific regions for the past 17 years. I am passionate in helping others with my insight and past adventures.
I hope you enjoy the stories I write and take a little something away from them. I've contributed to over 160 posts on travel, dating, marriage and relationships.