Dating is a difficult process.
With having to go out and find somebody you do not know and then strike up a conversation to begin a potential relationship is one of the most stressful experiences, any of us are likely to have.
And even more so, for shy people.
Thankfully, dating on the Internet relieves a lot of this stress and tension.
And shy people have the most to gain!
I have good friends who are shy.
Even extroverts can get butterflies in their stomach when it comes to meeting somebody new.
For shy people, everything starts with you being anonymous except for a picture and a nickname (you don’t even need to use your real name, publicly).
There’s no having to meet anybody and it’s all done on a computer keyboard and a website.
While many people think this is very impersonal, the fact is online dating allows everybody to avoid the butterflies in the stomach we all have when having to meet for the first time face-to-face.
Dating, initially, from an anonymous point of view allows everybody to be comfortable and build up, slowly.
As I mentioned earlier, choosing the number of dates you want to make contact with initially, is done at your own pace.
It’s your choice when you decide to log in.
You decide the pace at which conversation progresses and I suggest this is the right method to adopt.
Never think you need to rush through, as it will give you a bad experience.
Online dating the right way is all about finding a special someone to fill that void in your love life.
That’s it, in a nutshell.
Start off with no expectations on both yourself and the people you connect with.
Simply said, the conversations will progress to a face-to-face meeting or the person won’t be for you, as they don’t suit your requirements.
This is true for Western singles as well as Thai girls.
Many Thai women have never dated a western man.
Just be prepared to move on, without attachment.
Your goal is meeting people, for YOU.
This site has a feature for listing Thai women who match the criteria you're looking for.
This helps you avoid having to have conversations with thai girls in a bar area who have no idea what they’re looking for, in a man.
This dating match system produces a list based on your profile selection criteria.
It’s important you’re honest and truthful with the personality and characteristics of the people you decide to meet.
The important thing is you find matches suited to the goals you have in mind. There is no good and bad. Just your choice.
The right approach is to take things slow and at a steady pace.
That’s one of the reasons why Thai Romances has a great internal messaging system.
First, start cautiously with a few internal messages with a potential thai girlfriend.
With these first few messages, you’ll get an idea whether there is some initial attraction.
Once you're comfortable about her and your own safety, only then should you move onto Line or Skype - do this before you decide to meet though.
After all, nothing beats some video time with a pretty Thai girl except when you get to meet her face to face.
A big hurdle to overcome, if you're shy, is having dating partners knowing that you even exist.
Here they give you the ability to upload your profile images as well as displaying them in more prominent positions.
“A picture is worth a 1000 words” and more important with dating sites.
Everyone is attracted to visual images. Dating sites such as ours are no different.
Make sure you get some good close-up profile images for others to see.
There’s no need for personal information.
Shy people are going to love this.
Dating apps take the hard work out of the even finding who is right for you.
We notify you automatically by e-mail of the top 12 real connections to contact. We match you with people who are looking for you.
That means less work for you and more people to contact and get acquainted with.
Online dating for Thai singles and western singles has never been easier, than it is today.
The majority of the guesswork in finding who you need to contact, is all done for you.
So for all you shy people out there, compare the dating situation with that of the intimidating real-life dating game that you’ve been playing so far.
Do try something new.
Broaden your horizons.
Who knows, you just might find the right Thai woman to make your life blissfully happy and enjoyable.
You want that, don’t you?
I'm a Shy guy. Is dating easy?
Author: Martin Cooney
Enjoying Life in Asia/Pacific
Hi, my name is Martin. I have many friends in and traveled throughout the Asia/Pacific regions for the past 17 years. I am passionate in helping others with my insight and past adventures.
I hope you enjoy the stories I write and take a little something away from them. I've contributed to over 160 posts on travel, dating, marriage and relationships.