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Top 10 Tips for dating on a Thai Dating website

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The Thai Dating Top 10

We get a lot of members, both men and women, who seek a little bit of advice on how to get the most out of their dating membership.

Like any new experience in life, using an online dating website can lead to either success or failure. So with that in mind, here are my top 10 tips to take your dating experiences to a successful next level.


Do not use it.

Most people see flattery for what it is.

When you do not know the other person all that well, flattery is simply fake.

Do use a few subtle compliments but avoid over-using compliments when it gets to the verge of overt flattery.

It is a total turnoff.

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Short Questions

On a cultural online dating website such as Thai Romances, you need to take into account the real issue of language with Thai singles.

Bear in mind, everyone will have a different level of understanding with the Thai language and the English language.

It is best to start off your online conversations with simple and short questions.

This allows your potential date to use an online translation language tool; to use their own rudimentary understanding of your language or to ask someone they know to help out with the translation.

Long and verbose replies will lead to confusion and the possibility of the other person simply not answering you.

You want the conversation to keep flowing.

Use short questions and short replies until you get a grasp on their level of understanding.


When you launch into dating someone from another culture, it will pay you to learn a bit about their background.

Why is this important?

It demonstrates to them that you are actually interested in who they are and what their historical upbringing is all about.

Also understand this, that people from Thailand have a very deep love of their country and culture. From my experience, Thais love their country and culture, more than just about any other people that I’m aware of.

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Don’t Rush

  • You are too completely different people.
  • Two people from different backgrounds.
  • Two people with a different understanding of the world.
  • You will think differently.
  • You will understand things in a different way.

There is likely to be a great many differences in what you like and what you don’t like.

So take things slow.

Being pushy and trying to rush them in to a video conversation, as an example, can be fraught with danger.

If you’re a western man bursting at the seams to get that Thai woman to have a video conversation with you then consider that they may think that all you’re after is some sort of video sex chat.

That will be the first thing that they all think of when you suggest it.

The majority of Thai women are very conservative.

Conservative in their thinking towards both men and sex. And as I said previously, that is one of the cultural differences that you should be aware of.

Take it slow, take it steady and avoid rushing the other person into a situation that they will think twice about because if they are pushed, the chances of them ending any sort of relationship with you will be very high.

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Quality Photos

When it comes to an online dating website, visuals are high on the list of what you need to get right.

Think about what you want to see when you view someone else’s profile. The first thing you browse is what they look like and the quality of the photographs.

Good quality photos are important.

If you’re a guy, please please do not upload those he-man photos that show off your bear chest or have you drinking beers and smoking cigarettes.

Would you want to see that being displayed on a woman’s photo? I think not.

Do include one that might show you in a sporting activity but the majority should be clear quality head shots or head and body shots and the more you display the better your chances are that the lady is going to dwell on your online profile and look at them, for longer than if you don’t have them.

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Profile Information

The second thing for an online profile is a complete set of profile information.

If you have a dating profile, the next thing you you should do after reading this article is to log-in and view your own profile to make sure every part of that profile has been completed.

If you’re not willing to spend the time on your own profile then the woman who’s looking at it may very well think you will have the same casual approach towards her.

This is something you need to avoid.

A full and completed online profile will ensure she is well equipped to have a basic understanding of your background – and more comfortable in starting a conversation with you too!

Forget the Sex

I just want to reiterate the sex talk.

You can discuss sex perhaps on your second face-to-face meeting with the woman but discussing it in online messaging on an online dating website is a big no-no.

Yes, men and women were born from the sexual act and there’s no denying that.

Thai women are very sexual by nature and some of the sexiest women I’ve ever seen but openly chatting about it with them in online chats simply needs to be avoided.

The Favourite Button

There’s two ways to initiate contact.

And it works differently with different people.

My initial recommendation to you as a first timer (or a new online dating website member) is to start with the favourite button.

It doesn’t require you investing much time in starting a conversation but it sends a clear message to the lady that you have viewed your profile and think that there is something you both have in common.

This flows on into the next point about note-taking...

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Taking Notes

So let’s get your game-plan on.

By now, you know that online dating is playing the ‘Law of Averages’.

With so many Thai girls looking for a western man, the the odds are in your favour.

You’re going to browse through potentially hundreds of Thai women! Yeah, believe it!

You want to make sure you don’t get confused with who you have chatted with an what you have said, don’t you?

When you log in to your online dating site, make sure you have a pad and pencil ruled up into columns so that you can take notes of who you were talking to, when you’re talking to them and what you have said. Use specifics in your notes.

  • If you sent them a favourite signal then jot that down.
  • If you sent a ‘hi how are you message’, write it down so you remember how you started it off.
  • If they reply and you start having a conversation and they tell you things about the life, get the info down on paper.

You can refer back to these specifics in further questions so that they see it’s not a superficial conversation and you are trying to better know who they are.

That’s my top 10 Thai Dating Website tips.

If you read and understand all of those then you are going to have a great online dating experience.

Let me know any other questions in the comments below and I will happily answer them.

Happy dating to you all.

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