A Thai Girlfriend - All You Need To Know

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Who - Thai Girlfriend

Do you really know who your Thai girlfriend is going to be?

Thai girls come in all shapes and sizes. They all think differently.

Interesting Facts Before You Get Started:

Having a Thai girlfriend one day doesn't mean she'll be yours the next. Sad and often true.

There's a strong class system here in Thailand.

Class is determined by where you were born, your gender, your skin colour, money, your visible possessions, family status and even the boyfriend you're with.

It's a never-ending battle for Thai ladies.

I know of successful marriages between Western men and their Thai girlfriends. I also see many more fail miserably.

Always be on your guard for signs of your Thai girlfriend chatting online for long periods of time. She might be looking to ‘upgrade' away from you.

Your new Thai girlfriend will think different to you. It is your job to determine who your Thai girlfriend is going to be.

You need to think of the qualities and characteristics of the Thai girls you're wanting to meet.

The easiest way to do this is with a list on paper or use a mindmap which is what I prefer.

Have a look at the picture below to get an idea of what I'm talking about.

You want to end up with thai girls that you find interesting, in your own style.

If you like a slim Thai girlfriend - good. If you like a chubby Thai girlfriend - that's good too.

It's your choice so be honest and tune your mind to what YOU want in life.

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Where - Thai Girlfriend

Well, obviously in Thailand, dummy :)

Thailand is a small country. Yet, depending on the area of Thailand will determine distinct characteristics of the people who live there.

Examples of this are:

Chiang Mai

Lighter skinned Thai girls If you're looking for a Thai girlfriend in Chiang Mai be prepared to do more work in getting to meet them.

Chiang Mai is really untouched by outsiders.

The income level and English level is lower here than Bangkok and the people are more conservative than Pattaya or Phuket. The ‘good' Thai girlfriend material are much more shy and less open to meeting a foreign guy (Farang).

You'll also find most younger Thai ladies in Chiang Mai have never had a boyfriend until they finish their college years. These Thai girls typically live with their parents until they are in their late 20s.

Don't be discouraged though. Like anywhere in the world, there's also a percentage of stunning Thai hotties in Chiang Mai who are highly interested in meeting and dating foreigners.

The best place to discover Chiang Mai Thai girlfriend is the Internet through an online dating site.

Udon Thani

A Thai girlfriend from Udon Thani or Buriram is likely to have a beaming wide smile that you'll instantly fall in love with.

The No. 1 thing to remember about north-east Isaan girls is to keep clean. That holds true for all Thai ladies but if you want a Thai girlfriend from a place like Udon Thani, be prepared to be sniffed 15 times a day before you get any sort of love or affection.

Udon Thani is a poor farming community. But over 11,000 western men have taken Thai girlfriends for wives. That speaks volumes the Thai ladies have much to offer Western guys who wish to find a beautiful Thai girl.

Just remember to keep clean.

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Isaan

There's a lot written elsewhere about having a Thai girlfriend in Isaan is only about money. That can be said about women in any part of the world.

You need to remember this region of Thailand is poor.

The Isaan girls are beautiful, intelligent, innocent as well as uneducated. They are the perfect Thai girlfriend or so you might think.

Life isn't easy for these pretty Thai girls.

Most of Thailand looks upon Isaan people as having a lower social status due to their lack on money. Being a woman here has an even lower social class. So many Isaan girls leave, head for bigger cities and find higher paying employment.

If you find a Thai girlfriend who comes from Isaan, their priorities are likely to be:

  1. Money
  2. Their mother and family
  3. Saving face
  4. a Thai boyfriend and their friends
  5. Her possessions
  6. You (the western Farang guy)

If you can work with that in your life, go get yourself a young Thai girl from Isaan.

Bangkok

Thai girlfriends found in Bangkok are the melting-pot of all of Thailand. You'll find every Thai girlfriend variety here.

Bangkok occupies 606 sq miles in the Chao Phraya River delta in Central Thailand, and has a population of over 8.5 million (13% of the country's population).

By 2030, Bangkok is expected to become one of the world's megacities with a population surpassing 10 million.

Bangkok is a massively big place!

Finding a Thai girlfriend in Bangkok is easiest using an online dating site.

If you prefer what is called 'Day Game', Bangkok is home to some of the most affluent shopping malls I've ever seen.

You'll find an abundance of good Thai girls shopping in these malls so try out your luck.

Yala

Personally, I'd recommend against heading to Yala (or any other area in Thailand's deep south) when thinking about a Thai girlfriend.

I've meet a few cute thai singles who live in Bangkok but have roots in Yala but the area if rife with conflict due to age-old unrest.

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How - Thai Girlfriend

How do you find a Thai girlfriend?

Your lifestyle will factor in on travel time, holiday time and online time.

Your first action is to join an online dating website, whether you live in Thailand or not.

You should have already done research into your holiday agenda. Where in Thailand you want to visit will go towards where you need to find a Thai girlfriend.

Whether it is Pattaya, Bangkok, Isaan area, Chang Mai or some of the outer country areas. Having specifics on locations helps with the 'How'.

OK, you got your travel itinerary mapped out. You need to attend to your online dating profile.

Every potential Thai girlfriend will use your profile information to determine whether you will make a suitable dating candidate. Thai girls have their own set of guidelines, just different to yours.

I can't stress this is enough having great profile photos is a 'must have'. In my experience, five profile pictures is a solid way to start. I use 2 good quality headshot photos and three photos showing me in my active hobby - which is sailing.

So the first thing that my past Thai girlfriends see is that I'm active. And younger Thai girls want to be a part of that. I have what these cute Thai girls desire and they want some of that for their lives or so they think.

Your profile description should be kept brief. Adding some simple humour works well. The humour needs to be easy to understand as English isn't a Thai girls first language and translation is always a potential problem.

Leave mystery in their minds with a short profile description. Enough to get their interest and get the online conversation started. Then move them off the website and onto a messaging app like Line or Skype.

For me, a dating website is simply a shopping mall. That is what it is.

Girls see it this way as well.

It's a fast, simple and easy way to find an interesting Thai girlfriend. Thai girls are always on their phones chatting.

The benefit of an online dating site is you can scan through photos and online dating profiles of hundreds of Thai ladies over the course of an hour. Do it on your smartphone when you are waiting to meet a potential Thai girlfriend, for that first face to face meeting if you want lol

Compare this to the work you need to do if you're going to do 'day game' in a shopping mall in Bangkok.

I've found shopping malls are just hard work in finding a Thai girlfriend. Keep them as a meeting place for the first date.

Conversations with a Thai Girlfriend:

Thai people are generally not very open-minded. Surprisingly, they unaware what’s happening outside of their own country. Thai people love to talk about Thai things.

Talk about travel
Ask her if she has traveled before and what her dream destination would be.

Have some cool pictures ready on your smartphone that can complement your stories but be very casual about it.

Talk about Thai food
Ask her if she can cook and if she likes to cook. Does she cook spicy? Tell her you love Thai food, but you’re not used to the spiciness yet. Ask her about the grasshoppers (takatan tod), if she eats them and if she thinks they are delicious.

Tell her what the famous food is in your country and ask her if she likes it.

Talk about Thailand
Tell her about the other cities you have visited or ask her what she thinks about those places.

Example: tell her you went to Pattaya and you didn’t like it too much. Many girls 'ting tong' (crazy) and many old farang 'ting tong' as well.

Talk about Ladyboys
Tell her about the time a ladyboy tried to harass you, or that time when your buddy accidentally took home a ladyboy.

If you don’t have a story, you can wonder together with her why there are so many in Thailand. Ask if she has any ladyboy friends. Ask how you can be sure if it’s a ladyboy or not.

Make jokes about it, maybe SHE is a ladyboy?!

Talk about Hobbies
Ask her if she can sing.

Then tell her you love to sing, you just have bad luck that you are the worst singer in the world, that’s why you only sing in the shower when you are alone. Ask her if she can dance and if she is good at it.

Does she like to party? Where does she go when she goes out?

Talk about Isaan
If you’re Thai girlfriend is from Isaan, tell her it’s really easy for you to know that she is an Isaan girl. 'Why?' she will ask you.

Tell her because (and this is accurate) girls from Isaan don’t say 'Chai' (yes) or 'Ka' (polite yes), Isaan girls say 'Uhhhh'.

This sounds very vulgar so be sure to amp it up and exaggerate how impolite it sounds.”


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Why - Thai Girlfriend

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Maybe you've never browsed through the online profiles of the Thai girls on this site to understand the main 'Why' :)

Stunning Beauty

From all my travels the most appealing women have been the beautiful Thai ladies in the Land of Smiles of Thailand.

Their beauty oozes innocent sexuality in a most respectful way. Thai women take great care of themselves, always.

No Conflict with a Thai Girlfriend

It's funny to think that a guy would miss conflict in a relationship but having a Thai girlfriend means the girl avoids conflict as much as they can - it is a culture thing.

The lack of conversation in an argument with a Thai girl is appealing and sometimes annoying. Learn to live with that. It is what it is.

All That Cleaning

I love that Thai women are clean in everything they do. I've had a Thai girlfriend that showered more than four times a day. She was an Isaan girl which I mentioned before.

Religiously cleaning their home ... and yours if they stay with you.

A Thai girlfriend will clean anything they can get their hands on. It is a nice change from Western women.

Thai Girls and Food

Every Thai girlfriend I have had has taken the lead serving me food when we are out for dinner.

It is so cute.

Their way in showing respect to you. Be prepared in sharing her food also. Until you have experienced this, you'll never understand.

Thai Girlfriend Sex

And the sex department.

Some Thai girls have never had a boyfriend and some have.

Thai girls aren't afraid of trying new things in their sexual life. They are not afraid of voicing the pleasure they experience in bed either.

Having a Thai girlfriend screaming in pleasure is one of my main reasons for living and traveling in Thailand. I mean that in a good way. Thai ladies are not afraid of their body or sharing it with the man they love.


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When - Thai Girlfriend

If you're a western guy currently living in Thailand then the best time to find a Thai girlfriend is right NOW.

For those living outside of Thailand, I'd suggest you start the online dating experience at least a few months ahead of your arrival in the Land of Smiles.

A few months might sound a long time but it is worth putting in the time because you will make mistakes as well as finding Thai girls that don't suit your requirements.

From my experience, there are many beautiful Thai girls that get their kicks from only chatting. It's frustrating and annoying. I don't really understand why many of them do this but maybe it's as simple as boredom in their lives.

Who knows. If the Thai lady just wants to chat only then drop her out of your queue.

Interesting Fact #1 About Meeting a Thai Girlfriend:

Thai girls are notoriously unreliable when it comes to time and keeping appointments.

It only took me a few times of waiting for 30 - 90 minutes with a few Thai girls before I put some extra planning in place.

  • Always reconfirm they know the meeting time.
  • If you're well prepared, send them a photo of the exact place you're meeting and confirm they understand.
  • Ask them to Line you a message when they leave their home.

Getting set up on an online dating site for a few months allows you many opportunities to find a potential Thai girlfriend you find appealing.

Make sure they meet your expectations physically (Asian women are stunning), emotionally (some Thai women are emotional roller-coasters) and are in locations that suit your travel itinerary.

You have been making a big list of every girl and what you've said and been planning, haven't you?

You need to maintain contact with all of them, always.

Every Thai girlfriend I've known has a low threshold for boredom. It's your duty to keep them interested in you and your plans together.

Interesting Fact #2 About Meeting a Thai Girlfriend:

  • Never meet them in the morning. Never.
  • Thai girls love to sleep.
  • Shops rarely open before 10AM in Thailand anyway.

Many of these Thai girls don't have jobs.

There's an opportunity one of these online Thai girlfriends becomes your travel companion throughout your holiday. Don't discount falling in love with the country of Thailand either. You might end up staying here forever.

Who knows, the holiday Thai girlfriend may turn into the South-East Asian relationship you've always imagined and dreamed of.

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Author: Mitch

Semi-retired sailor traveling South-East Asia

Looking for a cute Thai girlfriend to spend my sailing adventures with. I like to write about my exploits and the mistakes and wins I make so you can learn from them.

Mitch is looking for a beautiful Thai girlfriend to sail around Thailand with

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